Why Reading Every Day May Be The Most Important Thing You Do

April 26, 2013 admin Uncategorized

What are the 3 steps to learning how to get anything you want in life?

They are…

1. Read

2. Watch and listen to audio and video programs

3. Meet people who can help you get what you want

Today we’re going to talk about reading. Why is reading important?

Take a look at this video by personal success expert Brian Tracy to find out…

Is reading good for making more money?

Absolutely. But it’s good for so much more.

Come back next Friday. And I’ll tell you how reading every day can bring you everything you want in life.

Thanks,

Trevor

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How To Learn How To Get What You Want

April 19, 2013 admin Uncategorized

Will Smith“I’m the type of person, if you ask me a question and I don’t know the answer, I’m going to tell you that I don’t know. But I bet you what. I know how to find the answer, and I will find the answer.” – Chris Gardner, The Pursuit of Happyness.

Knowing all the answers is great. But you know what might be even better?

Knowing where to find the answers.

As you’ve already learned, the 3 steps to getting whatever you want are…

1. Decide what you want

2. Learn how to get what you want

3. Act on what you learn

We’ve already gone over deciding what you want. Now let’s figure out how to get it. What are the 3 steps to learning how to get what you want?

They are…

1. Read

2. Watch and listen to audio and video programs

3. Meet people who can help you get what you want

Now, “read” isn’t very specific. Read what?

I’ll tell you where to start next Friday.

You already know what you want. Now it’s time for you to learn how to get it.

Thanks,

Trevor

P.S. This formula really is as simple as it seems. The answers are already out there.

Whatever problem you’re struggling with, come back next Friday. And I’ll show you where to find the answers.

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How Can This Movie Clip Change Your Life?

April 12, 2013 admin Uncategorized

This week we’re going to play a game.

First, I want you to watch this clip from The Pursuit of Happyness. The films stars Will Smith. It is based on a true story, about a man named Chris Gardner and his struggles with homelessness.

Here’s the game…

I want you to watch the video. Then answer this question…

What does this clip have to do with our next lesson?

Think of it as Where’s Waldo? Somewhere in this clip is a clue to our next lesson.

What do you think next week’s lesson will be?

Post your guesses in the comments section below.

Thanks,

Trevor

P.S. Need a hint? Check out my earlier article, How To Get Anything You Want In 3 Easy Steps.

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How To Commit To What You Really Want

April 5, 2013 admin Uncategorized

As you read in my article, How To Decide What You Want, the 3 steps to deciding what you want are…

1. Complain

2. Convert

3. Commit

We’ve already gone through the first 2 steps. Now let’s talk about committing.

What does it mean to commit to what you want?

It means you’re making a choice to actually get what you want.

You’re not daydreaming anymore.

It’s not a fantasy. It’s not a hope. It’s not a wish.

You’re going to get it. You’ve decided to start taking your dreams seriously.

First, you complained about what you didn’t like about your life. Then, you converted your complaints into desires. Finally, it’s time to make a commitment.

It’s time to make a choice. Choose to actually get the thing you want.

If you want to earn $100,000 this year, say, “I choose to earn $100,000 this year.”

If you want to weigh 120 pounds, say, “I choose to weigh 120 pounds.”

If you want to get married to your soul mate, say, “I choose to marry my soul mate.”

This is just the beginning. Right now, it’s not too important how you phrase what you want. What’s important is that you make a choice to actually get it.

So now that you’ve decided to get what you really want…

How do you get it?

Come back next Friday. And I’ll tell you.

Thanks,

Trevor

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How To Convert Your Complaints Into Desires

March 29, 2013 admin Uncategorized

As you read in my recent article, How To Decide What You Want, the 3 steps to deciding what you want are…

1. Complain

2. Convert

3. Commit

Last week, I asked you to write your complaints on a piece of paper. (Or in a Word document). Once you have your complaints written down, you’re ready to convert them into desires.

If you made a numbered list of 10 or 20 complaints, converting is simple. All you do is list the opposites of your previous complaints.

For example, let’s say your complaint list looked like this…

1. I’m not worth anything

2. I’ve never accomplished anything

3. I always make mistakes

4. I’m a jerk

5. I don’t deserve a good life

6. I’m stupid

7. I’m poor

8. I’m single

9. I’m overweight

10. I’m ugly

How does that list make you feel?

If you’re like most people, it probably makes you feel pretty bad. But let’s see what happens when you write the opposite of each statement…

1. I’m a valuable person

2. I’ve accomplished many things

3. I do many things well

4. I’m a great person

5. I deserve to be happy and healthy

6. I’m smart

7. I’m wealthy

8. I’m in a loving relationship with my soul mate

9. I’m at a healthy body weight

10. I’m good-looking

How does that list make you feel?

At first, you may feel uncomfortable. You may read your desire list and say, “That’s not true. I’m just lying to myself.”

That’s okay. These statements don’t have to be true for you right now.

If they were true, you wouldn’t want the things you’re describing. Because you’d already have them.

But what if you free wrote your complaints, rather than listing them?

Converting complaints this way is a little more fluid. It’s more art than science.

All you have to do is read your complaints again to refresh your memory.

Then grab a new sheet of paper. (Or open a new Word document). And free write the opposite of what you wrote last time.

It doesn’t have to be an exact, 1-to-1 match like the “numbered list” technique. Just write whatever comes to mind.

Write, write, write.

Write anything you want, as long as it’s positive. Write what feels right to you.

Write the same number of pages you wrote for your complaints. If you wrote 1 page of complaints, write 1 page of desires. If you wrote 2 pages of complaints, write 2 pages of desires.

When you’re done, read over your desire pages. How do they make you feel?

Again, it’s okay if you feel uncomfortable at first. This is just the first step. The purpose of this exercise is simply to point you in the right direction.

By deciding what you want, you’re giving yourself a target.

Come back next Friday. And I’ll show you how to hit that target.

Thanks,

Trevor

P.S. When you’re done converting your complaints to desires, you need to do one last thing…

Throw your complaints away!

Tear them up.

Burn them.

Delete them.

Throw them in the recycling bin.

Whatever you do, get them out of your life! They’ve served their purpose. You’re done with them.

Throw away your complaints. From now on, your desires are all that matter.

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What Are The 2 Best Ways To Complain?

March 22, 2013 admin Uncategorized

Huh? Who needs lessons on how to complain? We were all born with that great skill, weren’t we?

Sure. Anyone can say their complaints. But you’re not just anyone.

I know you’re ready for change. Because you’re reading this article.

So you’re going to go one step further.

You’re not just going to say your complaints…

You’re going to write them!

As you read last week, the 2 best ways to write your complaints are…

1. List your complaints

2. Free write your complaints

If you’re more of a logical thinker, you may want to list your complaints.

Grab a piece of paper or open up a Word document on your computer. Then make a numbered list of 10 things you don’t like about your life. (For extra credit, go for 20!)

It’s that simple.

If you’re more of an emotional thinker, free writing may be the better option for you.

Just grab a piece of paper or open up a Word document on your computer.

And start writing.

Write, write, write. Write whatever you feel like, as long as it’s negative. Answer the question, “What don’t I like about my life?”

Keep going until you’ve filled up the whole page. (Or for extra credit, 2 pages!)

Why in the world would I ask you to do this?

Because your complaints are your fuel.

When you get clear about the problems in your life, the solutions become clearer too. You can’t solve a problem if you don’t know what it is. This is your chance to find out EXACTLY what’s bothering you about your life.

Come back next week. And I’ll show you how to convert your complaints into a brand new vision.

A vision of the life you’ve always wanted. (And can actually have!)

Thanks,

Trevor

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How To Decide What You Want

March 15, 2013 admin Uncategorized

Last Friday, you read a story showing why many people (including you!) don’t know what they really want in life. This week, I’ll give you the formula for deciding what you really want. Which will bring you one step closer to getting it.

So how do you decide what you really want?

Here’s the secret.

The 3 steps to deciding what you really want are…

1. Complain

2. Convert

3. Commit

The first step is pretty self-explanatory, isn’t it?

All you have to do is complain about all the things you don’t like about your life. Or the things you don’t want.

If you want to speed up the process, don’t just say your complaints. Write them down!

How?

The 2 best ways to write your complaints are…

1. List them

2. Free write them

I’ll explain those 2 ways in more detail later.

For now, I want to know what’s on your mind. What are some of your complaints? Write them down in the comments section below.

Come back next Friday and I’ll show you how your complaints can actually fuel the rocket to your success.

Thanks,

Trevor

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Why You Don’t Know What You REALLY Want…

March 8, 2013 admin Uncategorized

Wouldn’t it be amazing if you already had everything you’ve ever wanted? Just imagine the life you could be living right now if you had no limitations.

Picture yourself living in a perfect world. Enjoying all that life has to offer.

If that picture is already clear to you, congratulations! You’re already one step ahead of many of the people out there.

A few years ago, I sat down with my friend Jenny to discuss her relationship troubles. No matter where she looked or how hard she tried, she could never find a decent guy to date. She was sick of attracting losers.

So I decided to help her get clear about what she really wanted in a relationship.

“What’s one thing you didn’t like about your last boyfriend?” I asked, pen in hand, ready to jot down whatever she had to throw my way.

“Well, my last boyfriend cheated on me,” she said dryly. “I suppose I didn’t like that very much.”

“Okay,” I said, writing her complaint in my notebook. “So what would you like instead?”

“What?” she responded. She wasn’t sure what I was asking.

“Your last boyfriend cheated on you. That’s what you didn’t like. So what would you like instead?”

Without thinking, she said, “A boyfriend who won’t cheat on me.”

“That’s still what you don’t want,” I said. “You don’t want a boyfriend who will cheat on you. So what would you prefer instead?”

The question threw her for a loop.

She knew she wanted a boyfriend who wouldn’t cheat on her.

Who wasn’t selfish.

Who wasn’t a jerk.

Who wasn’t controlling.

Who wouldn’t break her heart.

So if that’s what she really wanted, why did it all sound so negative?

Because she wasn’t describing what she wanted. She was describing what she didn’t want: a selfish, controlling jerk who cheated on her and broke her heart.

Her mental picture of the relationship she DIDN’T want was crystal clear. But the relationship she actually DID want was a mystery to her.

So how does this story apply to you?

Come back next Friday and I’ll give you the answer. More importantly, I’ll tell you what you can do to make sure it doesn’t stop you from getting what you really want.

Thanks,

Trevor

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How To Get Anything You Want In 3 Easy Steps

March 1, 2013 admin Uncategorized

Last week, I promised to reveal the secret to getting anything you want in 3 easy steps.

What kinds of things can you get with these steps?

Anything.

You can lose 30 pounds.

You can multiply your income.

You can find your soul mate.

(I’ve done all 3 using this formula.)

How excited are you to learn the 3 magic steps?

Great!

Because I’m about to reveal them to you.

The 3 steps to getting anything you want are…

1. Decide what you want

2. Learn how to get what you want

3. Act on what you learn

What?

How can it really be that simple?

The truth often is.

All you need are these 3 steps. If you wanted, you could go out and use them right now to get everything you want in life.

There are no tricks here. Nothing held back. I’ve laid it all on the table for you.

If this formula has opened your eyes to all the wonderful things you’re capable of, that’s great news. But if you still have questions, you can relax. I’ll be going into much more detail in the weeks to come.

If you’re looking for a bit-by-bit breakdown of each step, come back next Friday. I’ll be breaking down “Step 1: Decide What You Want” into bite-sized chunks for you.

And you’ll be one step closer to getting everything you’ve ever wanted.

Thanks,

Trevor

P.S. If you think “Decide What You Want” is self-explanatory, you’re in for a big surprise!

Come back next Friday. Read my next article. And I’ll show you why so many people (including you!) struggle with knowing what they REALLY want.

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How Can You Get Anything You Want In 3 Easy Steps?

February 22, 2013 admin Uncategorized

As you read each word of this short article, you will become so curious that you’ll come back to my site every week to find out more of what I have to teach you.

“How?” you ask. “How can I get anything I want in 3 easy steps?”

Follow the steps and you’ll see.

“What kinds of things can I get with the 3 easy steps?”

Anything. From relationships to health to wealth. Whatever you want, it’s yours.

“What are the 3 easy steps?”

I’ll tell you in my next article.

“How easy are they?”

Very.

“When will you teach them to me? When can I learn more? When can I read your next article?”

Next Friday.

“Come on. Really. What are the 3 easy steps?”

Come back next Friday and I’ll tell you.

Thanks,

Trevor

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